Ah! There is much to be said about enduring style, is there not? I still
have in my possession the handbag my mother held on the day she married
my dad in Dublin, Ireland, right after WWII, August 1945. At this
writing, that makes it 67 years old; not exactly Smithsonian vintage but
nearly. It doesn't have a label so I don't know where it was made;
undoubtedly it was purchased in Belfast, Northern Ireland, where she lived. Just beautiful.
Here is the proof in her right hand! I also used to have the suit, a scarlet wool 40s style, but it got too moth-eaten and sadly, was discarded. Oh– and that's my future dad, the US Army sergeant who swept her off to America.
I'm currently reading The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society and wonder how, in Northern Ireland, 1945, she could have gotten her hands on such a handbag– with leather and practically everything being rationed. My mom, being young and cute, would brag a little of how her own mother encouraged her to flirt with the fellow they called "Billy Butter" to get extra –what else?– butter! I have a feeling that, the minute the war was over, my dreamy-future-mother went on a meager shopping spree. P.S. Good book!
Some have a dislike (fear) of anything "granny". Everything is poo-poo-ed if it's too "granny". The expression "not your granny's … (decor, car, crafts– whatever)" is touted as a good thing because to be "granny" means to be out-of-style. Well, I say poo-poo to that! Get over yourselves, youth obsessed. If you are lucky, you too will get old.
Until about five years ago, the only turkey I had ever seen was the Thanksgiving kind.
But then those Wild Ones began to appear everywhere!
And they are wild indeed. Scary even. Last week I saw a poor fellow trying to keep about four of them at bay by using his bicycle as a shield.
The first time I saw them in my neighborhood was (believe it or not!) on a Thanksgiving Day. I thought "how adorable" and "how appropriate" and got out the camera.
However, they soon got aggressive and spoiled my photographic endeavor.
How did the Sisters do it? ... I don't know. There were at least 50 children in each class and the Sisters rarely had a helping hand. We had folk dancing on Wednesdays taught by a regular dance instructor; I imagine that hour must have been a little touch of "heaven" for our Sister! She didn't even get recess off because there was no one else to perform yard duty.
Catholic school was the best of my education in every respect. Now that could have partially been because, at age 13, I went on to one of the two much larger public schools (dubbed Sodom and Gomorrah by Sister L, our principal) and because hormones kicked in. After 8 years of religion,rulesandrespect, it was strange to see students slouching in their seats when answering a question (we ALWAYS stood by our desks when speaking in class). No one in public high school could diagram a sentence the way we former Catholic school kids could. And I was particularly fortunate because Sister J and her propensity for "modern math" came along when I was in 7th grade, so I received an education in bases and square roots which not every parochial school was able to offer. I got so good that I competed in math competitions! Believe me, considering what happened in HS, that was amazing! Our class had a lot of good voices as well, and an excellent instructor, Sister A, who coaxed Latin 5-part harmony into our heads and melodiously out of our mouths. And history ... the crusades, serfdom, missions ... we learned it all with a healthy touch of secular history thrown in as well.
If my dad had had his preference, he would have driven all his girls to the Catholic high school which was about 30 miles away. It was impossible, of course. He also had a stroke when I was 12. He could no longer drive me to YCS (Young Christian Students). I would receive my last scholarly honor pin at age 13. And on to high school where times were a changin'. I became too vain to wear my glasses. I started to smoke (quit ages ago.) I lost interest in school except for Art (Thank God for a wonderful art teacher!). Interestingly, the boys with whom I had gone to Catholic school, who were average students in grade school, really took off and excelled in high school! And many of the girls did well too, not falling into the trap that I did. The very same girl who, one year prior, had been in math competitions, had some sort of mental block about algebra in high school. There is, of course, much more to the story, but this post is to talk about Catholic school.
Some might argue that a Catholic education is not superior. I can only speak of my own experience, the care I felt and from which I benefitted. My own teen years made a difference, I admit. Whether Catholic high school would have changed anything in my education, it's hard to say because there were other factors.
I now live in a city where the Catholic grade school no longer is staffed by any Sisters. I think the enrollment is pretty small and they have financial woes. Sad. Because for me it really was my best education.
Incidentally, most of my lifelong friends are from my Catholic school time. (Perhaps that is a comment on my personality more than education itself.) Soon, I will be having lunch with the two girls with me in the above illustration and with our 6th grade Sister ... what was she– 12 years old?– when she was teaching us?
If you were ever fortunate enough to sing Latin at Mass, what version of Agnus Dei did you sing? I have searched all of YouTube PLUS snippet after song-snippet on Amazon (and other sites) but have never heard my version!
Attached is a video of me (except you only hear me) singing the version that I remember:
I thought that it was from the St. Gregory Hymnal; however, the two versions in here don't have the "rests" before the first "Agnus Dei" and the first "miserere". I can vividly recall Sister hitting the wall when the rests occurred, so much so, that, in my head it is a part of the music. She was wonderfully patient teaching us some very complex, multi-harmonied songs, often in Latin.
Leave a comment and tell me about the version you sang.